Glossary · Term
Firmness
A virtue of love. It is not aggressive, but it does not allow others to violate the Law. It does not take on the consequences of another person’s decision, so as not to harm them.
In the Foundation's Topics
Non-reaction must be backed by total firmness, and the only option that should never be available to the child is to do nothing.
Do I use firmness and dialogue instead of aggression and imposition?
Embracing this characteristic of instinct means giving up attacking and fleeing, and using dialogue, agreements, compromises, and firmness instead, or setting boundaries when it is not possible to reach an agreement.
